As I sit here ready to write an article to share with you about fulfillment, I ask Spirit what it is that most of you are wanting to connect with, to manifest more of, to have appear and be in your world. As I do this I am reminded that here in Colombia this month we will be celebrating “el dia del Amor y la Amistad” which translates to “the day of love and friendship” or what you may know as Valentine’s Day.
El dia del Amor y la Amistad is celebrated on the third Saturday of September every year (16th September this year) and is a day in which husbands, fiancees, boyfriends, partners and friends show their love and affection for each other. One of the traditions on this day is that a game called "secret friend" is performed where a group of friends choose a name from a container at random and without the other person knowing, they give them candy, flowers and cards throughout the month. Essentially allowing for everyone to participate in this day and receive love and affection, whether you have a partner or not.
What comes into my awareness as I allow Spirit to bring through information for you, is how in many Western cultures there has been such an enormous expectation placed on Valentine’s day and the perception of what romance, intimacy and sensuality needs to look like from the Divine Masculine, our Kings, in order for women to know they are loved – I know I am generalising here and that not all women have these expectations, my point is that sometimes the perceptions and expectations that women have of romance, intimacy and sensuality do not match up with what they want our beautiful men to provide.
Given that romance is essentially the feeling of excitement and mystery associated with love, it is important that you allow your Divine Masculine, your God, your King, to step into the safe and sacred space where he can be free to express his affection, admiration and love for you without feeling pressured to do so in a particular way.
For the month of September, I ask you to join me in celebrating El dia del Amor y la Amistad and for you amazing women out there, the Queens, the Divine Feminine, to allow your King, the Divine Masculine to be more romantic, intimate and sensual with you, by creating the right energy around you and providing him with the opportunity to step into this realm with you.
How do you do that? Well, there are so many articles out there with dating, flirting and romance advice that can absolutely leave you confused and uncertain about what steps to take to bring him closer, rather than have him run. So, my Divine Goddesses, I want to provide you with a few secrets to help guide you and your man into this sacred realm where you can have your desires for love, romance and intimacy fulfilled:
Show Appreciation and Value: Listen to your man’s thoughts, ideas, feelings, what he wants and what he is doing, allow him to answer, listen without thinking of what to say next, give him time to think of what he wants to say next, this allows him to feel valued and cared about and special – don’t we all want that!
Be Playful: Allow yourself to flirt, be playful, spontaneous and tease your man with your sensual side, this allows him to do the chasing and reminds him of what a valuable prize you are as well as shows him you are interested and that you want him
Physical touch & body language: Allow your hands, fingers and body to do the talking for you by engaging in soft, sensual and pleasurable physical touch that leaves your man knowing that you want and desire him whether a gentle touch on the arm, holding hand while looking in his eyes, a hand on his thigh, lower back, neck, hugs,kisses, a gentle smack on the butt or more, stay in the moment and be authentic with showing how you feel
Give Permission: Allow your man to be unapologetically masculine, without fear of being judged or yelled at as well as to feel powerful and desired as a man – give him permission to be allow of his Divine self
Let go of expectations & go with the flow: When you view the relationship as so significant, so intimate, so important to your well-being, you create too many expectations boxes, walls, blocks or obstacles for your man to bump into as there is no space for them to fall into and participate with you and for him to feel like it is his choice to be affectionate, romantic and sensual with you – the least meaning you place on it the easier it is for him so let go of all expectations and go with the flow
Create Time and Space: Provide your man with the time and space where you are completely present with him, with no distractions, where you and he can connect and communicate physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually, where he can feel safe to be romantic and intimate with you, where he can share his feelings, give love and affection
There you have it my fellow Goddesses, Queens and Divine Feminine, for this month stand in your power, be confident and be romantic and sensual with the Divine Masculine, the Kings in your world by communicating your feelings of excitement and mystery associated with love – freely express and allow him to experience and feel your affection, admiration and love for him. Go on, fulfill your desires for romance, intimacy and sensual pleasure this month!
NOTE: This article also appeared in the September, 2017 edition of The Temple Magazine.
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